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Fantasys

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Nov 25, 2008 10:30    Quote
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A simple procedural reminder first gentlemen. Please remember when you phone, to leave
your Name and Client Code on the message so you'll get a call back and not ignored.
Over the weekend (Friday-Monday) we reviewed the HUGE list of missed calls and we do
mean HUGE, but only one guy followed the instructions and everyone else did not. Unfortunately,
they were ignored and he was the only one that was taken care of....did I mention
that is was a HUGE list when I checked the numbers against our database Tuesday?
The problem for you? I receive an incredible volume of ding-a-lings phoning in from the phone
numbers listed on the Escort Reviews that totally ignore the RED BOX on everyones profiles
that plainly states that we Require Pre-screening....I did say an INCREDIBLE NUMBER
didn't I? Literally thousands Per Week. If you think 12 is a huge number you must be referring to a
penis size. 12 here is a slow HOUR... They know better, they just want to try it anyway
and see if they'll be the exception to the requirements. Meaning: They are a piece of shit and
they think that You and I are pieces of shit too! They obviously aren't in our social demographics,
have NO HONOR and they are NOT the professional gentlemen that we've chosen
to do business with. And will not. I log that number into the database under "D.N.S.",
meaning "Do Not Service" so if he ever does come back and apply he will be denied
anyway because he's one of those personality types that doesn't belong with YOU guys.
He doesn't deserve the opportunity and cannot be trusted with YOUR SAFETY. Huh?

"He cannot be trusted with Your safety". Think about it for a moment, please. We are
on the verge of constructing and releasing the SAFEST, Elite, Predictable, Honorable
escort community-EVER-one
that every single person who is a member has been Verified to be completely legitimate and Safe. Has
Character and Honor, has shown themselves to be Trustworthy enough for inclusion into an Elite-Private-Escort-Community of like minded professional men and women, providors and clients
alike mind you, (and free to you!) and these butt-heads get offended that we REFUSE to do business with them.
Ego. They get offended because we appear inflexible and they cannot grasp or comprehend the concept of
doing business with honor, that Your Word is Everything and our Intentions are Useless in Business. YOUR history
is the ONLY measure of honor and thats how I screen everyone, based upon your history and psychological mind set. I'm pretty good at it. Maybe the best in the world today and my staff is right there with me. It IS NOT about your
social standing or bank account or OPINION of yourself. Now please, think about it once again in this light because
a write up similar to this one will be posted on the escort community website in some form so everyone
that applies will know Exactly what the criteria for membership is. If Your Word Is No Good-YOU'RE NO GOOD.
No grey area. Very simple and black and white. Intentions are only meaningful to You.

You Guys and Gals have spent your entire lives being GOOD PEOPLE,
building the foundation for good lives, becoming good, trustworthy people,

and have probably enjoyed the rewards for it and have also probably been somewhat
punished for it in the business by con artists more than once and you know that you didn't
deserve that. It's what makes escort reviews so popular after all. What should I
expect?
But as we all know, our mileage varies tremendously and reviews simply
do not make the important things obvious about providors OR clients.
Providors often get burned as well. <--That's MY deal here and what we're after.
A Real Community of Clients and Providors representing various backgrounds, social classes,
varying economic and sociological histories BUT consistently Good People.
Their word is reliable and their character unquestionable.
US and THEM.
"Truth, Can ONLY be Proven by RESULTS".
<--That is our measuring stick
for accepting you and you only get one chance here. Don't bother pleading.

This isn't the place for second chances and its fair that way because it takes into consideration
that a mistake is only that, a mistake, but a fuckup is ALWAYS A FUCKUP and you Will Not
Be A member if You Are A Fuckup. You must CONSISTENT to be TRUSTWORTHY.
Obviously that rules out those with drug problems, alcohol challenges, mental/emotional instability,
prescription drug problems for "anxiety bullshit" or jailbirds....those people have already established their standards for life, have abused the most basic freedoms that we are born with and obviously have no real character at this juncture of their lives and therefor cannot be trusted with YOU SAFETY. They only pollute the good and do not serve the greater good of all of us. Selfish, self-centered, narcissistic-self serving people NEVER serve the needs of their community. "They will be known by their works".

If it was only a matter of "is that guy a cop or that girl or agency going to deliver" then the Reviews or References would suffice. Obviously it doesn't support high standards for You or for US and it does not tell you if they are WORTHY, working with someone that they shouldn't...etc,

I have memberships at EVERY "verified community" and I'll be the first to tell you
that its so easy to manipulate and to beat that its a VERY dangerous precept to
base your safety upon. I will not. And I cannot when other people are dependent
upon me to have their best interests at heart-consistently-every time. Even on "bad days".

I ONLY use providor references as a measure of a Clients usual Standards, NEVER
as the deciding factor for acceptance. The providors MUST FAX a copy of their drivers license
to me before they'll be considered and I do a comprehensive background check on them as well.
Even more than on you guys. Because of the nature of the business I absolutely must.
This is a business that attracts the greatest number of people with the Least amount of
character that desire to make the Most amount of money with the Least Amount of
Character-or Effort required. With the least amount of accountability too. So "normal"
considerations will not suffice. Many of them come from abusive backgrounds, drug
abuse, spouse, broken homes, poor roles models, drug dealing piece of shit boyfriends,
lazy "stripper boyfriends" out for an easy buck and worse. You Guys as clients
are among some of the WORST ENABLERS too! As a man its just about always
our first instinct to be empathetic or sympathetic-when we like them-and convince
ourselves that they are "Victims" and we want to help them. And its all a crock
of SHIT! They aren't "Victims" only Volunteers and these are NOT healthy people
gentlemen. "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree" ya know and On Average-
they almost ALWAYS go right back into that nonsense that they ran away from.
And where you helped them to escape right back to in the end.....

Becoming an escort is an excellent tool for validation for these knuckleheads that refuse
to take responsibility for their bullshit lives, for everything in it, all that they contributed
to and everything that their poor mental health was attracted to and continues
to seek out and You Guys enable that nonsense sometimes with the best of
intentions and sometimes with the worst. Like trying to "save" them for example. You are either
delusional yourself with the best of intentions OR selfish and want to KEEP them to yourself.

Save them from what? Themselves? YOU CAN'T. No one can. This is my experience
after 20 years of continuous sobriety, after 26 years in the business, with a genius IQ,
poverty and wealth, sober and not, State to State and Country to Country that
I've worked in with THOUSANDS of men and women from all over the world
in every little nook and cranny of the planet. You Cannot Save someone from themselves,
you cannot control them or convince them to "want better for themselves" or anything else.
They Do It or they Do Not. DON'T waste effort "falling in love with potential...". You lose.

Being a pathetic sugardaddy or paying their fucking bills is only postponing they inevitable
and worse-YOU and people Like You are Contributing to their demise even worse. Either they want
it badly enough to take FULL RESPONSIBILITY for their bullshit and every single thing in it
or they are CONNING you. At that juncture it probably means that you aren't
the picture of mental health either pal and You may be the guy that ONLY uses independents
because an escort agency won't tolerate your dumb stalker ass. "Captain save a Hoe".
Oh yeah, that means that you really aren't going to be a member here either, doesn't it?
Lonely doesn't make you a stalker pal....or possessive. Or Obsessive.

This has been a public service reminder that FANTASYS has Your Best Interest at Heart Ladies and Gentlemen. We love having you as clients and peers and look forward to the years to come as we continue to "give back" to the business that has been so good to us with this great thing that we're all building here.
Thank you all for coming, thank you all for contributing and Happy Holidays,
it is an honor to serve you! M~

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